Well now, O'Rourke is an old and honored Celtic family name. Amongst the Irish people there's a belief that when those folks who have passed on are remembered, they know and they rejoice. Methinks I'll quaff a tankard or three to you and your friend.
I am sorry for your loss...I had the privilege of digging with him once at CCC, he was kind and courteous all day, and i felt i had made a friend by the end of it..i pray his soul is happy amongst the righteousness of the kingdom of heaven