The Ally McBeal performance with RDJ and Sting in the Bar frequented by the legal people and where Vonda Shepard always plays.
The Studio Version of RDJ & Sting of Every Breath you take.
What I'm searching for is this:
The complete video from some charity concert in LA in 2001, which must exist somewhere because there's been quite nice footage in the news once.
See what I mean on youtube (that's not Ally McBeal and it looks quite professionally recorded). Maybe there even exists a DVD of the whole concert somewhere (with all the other acts - I think also RDJ and Sting performed one other song).
And the same story with Stings 60th birthday. I didn't find the news link with the proper footage of RDJ's act but here's a link to the act with Stevie Wonder and there must be a video with RDJ as well in that nice 720p professionally shot and cut with multiple cameras.