Katelyn ...You seem to get it ... Thanks... Censoring ... Not what I meant at all .. to be honest I really don't care how they behave. I don't have kids. Not understanding 13 year old sexual attraction to a man who could be a father or grandfather. My husband is hot 47 and if a 13 year old thought he was sexy i would think her mother should maybe aim her toward her peers. Just a conversation... PS... met him a few times and he is an amazing man ... but... the "tween thing" does look like it takes it's toll on him... just an observation. Maybe I just see it all over the web and it's become kinda creepy to me.