My message forum is used for secret pals to post to each other without their pal knowing who they are.On the bottom of the text box,there's a box you can check to be notified when someone replies.I need to take that option off.How do I do this?
Thanks

That is not a configurable item on the Bravenet Message Board service. However, you may try removing the text box that asks for the email address. Then there wouldn't be anyone to notify.

In the Message Forum Manager, go to Manage Questions. Remove the text on the left side and set all of the selectors to Text. If you do this to all of them it will only ask for a Name. There will be no place for a email address to send to. The button is still there when a person posts, but without a email address no one get a notice. I tried it on mine and it seems to work.