I cant access my forums through my site. When go to the home page there is no button for my forums. Also how do i add pages???? I saw the option once but its not there any more.

Have you pasted the code to your site?

Each service is totally free standing, Bravenet make no assumptions about where you want links and buttons to appear, that is entirely up to you. Indeed if you had sites with more than one web host there would be no reason to assume that you wanted the forum linked from the Bravehost one.

try the Add A New Page option in the Wizard, then try the Add A Bravenet Service option, also in the wizard.